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Stolen
Women: Reclaiming Our Sexuality, Taking Back Our Lives
Wyatt, G. E.
New York: John Wiley & Sons, 1997.
(hardcover, 296 pp.)
Review by Juanita Rubio, Heather
Terrell, and Nancy Felipe Russo
In Stolen Women, Gail Elizabeth
Wyatt, Ph.D. draws upon her professional experience as a psychologist,
sex researcher, and clinician, as well as her own personal experiences
as a black woman, to examine the topic of African American women
and sexuality. She begins by explaining that a woman of any color
bears the burden of sexual stereotyping at some point in her lifetime,
but that black women are especially devalued. Although white women
are often depersonalized by being labeled as less intelligent
or incompetent, depersonalization of black women focuses first
on their sexuality. Stereotypes about black women that are rooted
in slavery perpetuate myths about lack of sexual control and sexual
irresponsibility, making it difficult for black women to express
their sexuality without being defined by it.
The book is divided into three
sections, and although it is based on clinical research, its conclusions
are consistent with her empirical research as well. She takes
a narrative approach, using various accounts to help the reader
understand that sexuality has a varied meaning and that there
is no single notion of womanhood. In Part I, Wyatt focuses on
history, tracing sexual images of African American women through
nearly five centuries to show the reader that modern stereotypes
of black women have roots that can be traced back several generations.
In Part II, stories of women she has interviewed are drawn upon
to develop a portrait of the formative sexual experiences of black
women. She discusses how these experiences influence sexuality
later in life, and points out the cultural patterns that are expressed
in personal accounts and behavior. She goes on to provide the
reader with principles and knowledge that can help women take
responsibility for their sexuality, regardless of past experiences
or societal demands. In Part III, she encourages self-awareness
by including a Sexual Responsibility test that can help one identify
'personal problems, challenges, and unexplored potential' while
on the path of sexual healing and self-discovery.
Wyatt attempts to cover ground
that has been previously untouched by other researchers. Middle-class
and affluent women are included in her studies with poor women,
emphasizing both differences and similarities. Cultural differences
between black women are also taken into consideration, and Wyatt
pays special attention to diversity of individual backgrounds
and life experiences, as demonstrated by her emphasis on personal
narratives. The book provides an in-depth analysis of the experiences
of black women that allows an examination of cultural patterns
that shape later decisions, and also traces the early patterns
of sexuality across the entire life span.
Abortion issues are but a small
part of Wyatt's examination of the range of black women's sexual
and reproductive experiences. The points she makes, however, challenge
conventional wisdom and emphasize the need for vigilance in avoiding
the stereotypes that construct their sexuality. She presents a
brief but powerful description of the impact of illegal abortion
on black women, including a chilling example of a male nurse who
poured turpentine down a woman's vagina into her uterus in an
attempt to perform an abortion. Later, she considers the meaning
of sexual responsibility, considering factors that influence risky
sexual behaviors, sexual satisfaction, deciding to have a family,
use of contraceptives and deciding to have an abortion. Wyatt
provides statistics on how many women have had abortions and their
reasons for doing so, and points out that, contrary to other literature,
she finds black women and white women seek abortion at similar
rates. She issues a ringing challenge to the assumption that black
women oppose abortion, stating 'For African American women, the
overall pattern appears to be pro-children, pro-families, and
pro-choice. We have always valued the right to choose to bear
children, whether legally or illegally' (p. 178). She emphasizes
that abortion is a 'last decision' in a series of events that
might be prevented if Black women had more information about their
bodies and were more empowered to consider their own goals and
futures rather than deferring to their partners' needs and wishes.
Although Wyatt acknowledges and
explores the various painful socially constructed problems of
African American women's sexuality, her stance is optimistic,
emphasizing the need for women to take on the responsibility to
create change. Stolen Women is an important book. Reading
it is an empowering experience for black women and a path to understanding
the diversity of black women's experiences for all readers. But
women of other ethnicities will find echoes of their experiences
in the book as well. Thus, on the one hand the book documents
how sexuality and reproductive experiences are shaped by cultural
forces and must be understood in their social and cultural context.
But at the same time, the work also provides a bridge to unite
women across those social and cultural contexts by showing how
women share so many of the issues they face because they bear
and raise children.
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